Joyful Recollections of Trauma

Award-winning actor/comedian/podcaster Scheer’s charming, disarming, candid, and warm collection of essays will appeal to readers who like their humor best when it’s bittersweet. He aims to wear his former feelings of shame with pride, whether it’s describing abuse at the hands of his stepfather or listing cringeworthy celebrity encounters so embarrassing that he had to leave the scene. He acknowledges the times in his life that those who loved him most, including himself, failed him. Laying bare how traumatic events can become so routine they may not register as trauma, he conveys his humility and humanity with humor and authenticity. In the chapters “Ode to a Minivan” and “Scheer Humiliation,” readers see the silly side of him in his roles as an actor, a comedian, a husband, and a father. Readers will find the sincerest form of self-acceptance through hard lessons learned in the chapters “When I Grow Up” and “Becoming Dad.”