Kissing Girls on Shabbat: A Memoir

Psychotherapist Glass grew up in the insular, ultraconservative Gur Hasidic community, where every aspect of her life was controlled. From what she wore to whom she married, Glass had very little say. Stuck in an unhappy marriage, Glass decides to do the unthinkable—divorce her husband, Yossi. She remarried, but as she came to understand her identity as a lesbian, she eventually left the community with her finances, career, and children, knowing that she was at last affirming her true self. Glass narrates her own story, and her strength is evident as she goes from a bewildered young woman to a fierce advocate for LGBTQIA+ people. Her memoir sheds light on a community not often seen, inviting listeners into the world while providing a nuanced discussion of the community’s mores. Glass also provides insight into the community’s beliefs about mental health, gender, sexuality, and education. There’s also a note geared toward Glass’s therapy clients at the end, providing insight into her personal therapeutic beliefs.