Other People’s Words: Friendship, Loss and the Conversations That Never End

Vox audio editor Soep’s debut self-narrated memoir delves into friendship, grief, love, heartbreak, and the inevitable ways relationships evolve as people age. As she contemplates her grief after unexpectedly losing two close friends, Soep argues that words, whether voicemails, emails, texts, or letters, help preserve memories after losing a loved one. These inscribed words carry meaning that people have created together; they live in memories and documents beyond the finite life of the person who produced them. The author skillfully uses varied formats, blending personal reflections with scholarly insights, particularly focusing on the philosophy of Mikhail Bakhtin. Soep’s reverence for words and the transformative power of literature shine through as she vividly conveys the depth of her experiences. Though not a professional narrator, she tells her story with nuance, and listeners will connect with the strength in her voice. Her deep connections with people and her passion for words and literature enrich the listening experience.