SELF-HELP

Stronger Than You Think: The 10 Blind Spots That Undermine Your Relationship…and How To See Past Them

by Gary W., Jr Lewandowski
Little, Brown Spark. Feb. 2021. 304p. ISBN 9780316454711. $28. SELF-HELP
COPY ISBN
Lewandowski (psychology, Monmouth Univ., NJ; The Science of Relationships) translates and distills academic research to help people look at their romantic relationships and sidestep blind spots. He writes that most relationships, except abusive ones, are healthier than we might think. He says that infrequent sex does not automatically indicate a bad relationship; conflict done well is a better indicator of relational health than “we never fight”; and that some selfishness is good for a relationship. For each blind spot, he provides science-based tips to practice. These are ultimately generalizations that will probably work for most, but not all. Still, this book gives couples excellent research-backed starting points to identify core needs and begin to discuss relational health with each other.
VERDICT An excellent choice for readers who are in a romantic relationship or are preparing for one.
Reviewed by Jennifer M. Schlau, Elgin Community Coll., IL , Mar 01, 2021
Comment Policy:
  • Be respectful, and do not attack the author, people mentioned in the article, or other commenters. Take on the idea, not the messenger.
  • Don't use obscene, profane, or vulgar language.
  • Stay on point. Comments that stray from the topic at hand may be deleted.
  • Comments may be republished in print, online, or other forms of media.
  • If you see something objectionable, please let us know. Once a comment has been flagged, a staff member will investigate.

RELATED 

NONFICTION

Money for Couples: No More Stress. No More Fights. Just a 10-Step Plan To Create Your Rich Life Together
by Sethi, Ramit
NONFICTION

This Beautiful Day: Daily Wisdom from Mister Rogers
by Rogers, Fred
NONFICTION

Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship
by Sharp, Carolyn
NONFICTION

Cosmic Self-Care: Spiritual Rituals for Modern Mystics
by Huang, Katie
NONFICTION

Sunset Gratitude: 365 Hopeful Meditations for Peaceful and Reflective Evenings All Year Long
by Silva, Emily
NONFICTION

The Joy Document: Creating a Midlife of Surprise and Delight
by McGaha, Jennifer
More
ALREADY A SUBSCRIBER?

We are currently offering this content for free. Sign up now to activate your personal profile, where you can save articles for future viewing

ALREADY A SUBSCRIBER?